He broke your heart and you simply can’t stop crying. Devouring that non-fat ice-cream and trying to figure out what was your mistake is the worst thing ever. we know that getting over a break-up is not at all easy but what’s more heart-breaking is - to overcome the pain of being in love with that person who never understood your feeling. Unrequested love is an ugly reality!
You literally day-dream about him and go bonkers with his every move. Hundreds of movies have been made, millions of hearts have been broken in the name of Love that has gone unnoticed or unacknowledged. Well, it is true that forgetting unrequited love is next to impossible, because tugging at your heartstrings is a faint hope that someday your love will find acceptance.
But wait, should you wait for that day?
Well, it sounds romantic to hear that love someone with all your heart and soul, whether or not they love you back. But the ugly truth is- it certainly doesn’t feel romantic, it’s just devastating. It is believed that around 98% of people have experienced “Unrequested Love” at some point of the time.
Why to nurture the feeling who never valued your emotions? We suggest you try these 4 tips-
-There is no way to get around it, so reject the pain. Time is a great healer, wait for it.
- We know rejection is back, but know that you’re not alone is this world. Don’t feel bad or ashamed, just go with the flow.
- Ask yourself if you would rather not have loved the person at all. Try to find the correct answer. Just remember Alferd Lord Tennyson, poem says-
“I hold it true, whate'er befall; I feel it, when I sorrow most; 'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all”
-Finally give up your quest for closure, try and learn few things from “Rachel Green” for F.R.I.E.N.D.S
