Dear Dames,
This one is for you…
This Christmas go find a Christmas tree that you can use to decorate your living room. If he has time, then what are you waiting to take him along with you to pick one out. You can literally go back to being an innocent kid with an innocent love with the one who makes your day colourful and happy.
Just buying Christmas tree won’t help you to make the matter interesting. Go ahead and ask him to actually help you out to decorate it as well. Take time, fall in love with him and make him believe you’re here to stay. We know you believe in ‘woman-empowerment’ and ‘get-things-done-on-your-own’, but it won’t hurt to make him believe that you still want him to be there with you. Put a lot of effort whatever you do, be it decorating a tree or even baking. Ask him about his input. Make him feel like you genuinely value him and his decisions. Love is all about compassion, explore and settlement. It is a mixture of many emotions, try to blend in and enjoy the moment. Try to make him feel more than just your luggage-holder. If you’re a newbie in love and Christmas time is the first opportunity to plant a kiss on his lips then we suggest you act onto it. It’s only your first holiday together, after all, go spoil yourself (try to be in control). Try to make it a fun-affair.
Go ahead and curl up on the couch for a lazy day and just watch some movies, together. Do whatever, you feel like doing but spend time with each other.
Yours Truly
Jiyo Woman, Team
