You know those connections from your past life, the ones you think back and say,
I’m the dumbest and stupid person to think I loved him
or have you ever murmured to yourself,
God, was I crazy enough to tell them they made me the happiest person in this universe?
or
Was I drunk the entire relationship.
How do you convey this crazy- mix feeling toward somebody who is entirely out of your league, and whom you wouldn’t even want to see again? The suitable response is, that wasn’t true love at all.
It was a chemical combination of lust, fling, and affection. Don’t tag us the ‘love guru’, and we may not know how is your current relationship with him or her. However, here are some essential and necessary pointers you need to note down. These are the sort of tips which will save your life and let’s be realistic here, you don’t want to end up saying,
Oh he’s always by my side (when actually he is not there when you require him the most)
or
He’s so fun and charming.
This is not enough! And in case you’re uncertain about your current relationship, trying to examine it through the lens, this list will create an escape pointer for you to see where you arrive on true love or its mere attachments.
# Love is more or less like Firework, energetic. Attachment is dull, drab and boring.
# If the attachment is self-centered and self-focused then Love is Selflessness.
# Love is basically a feeling and freedom whereas Attachment is ownership and domination.
# Attachment is always planned, but love has no time-limit. It has no an expiry date.
Try to distinguish between these two. With that being said, if you haven’t discovered the real deal yet then fret not. Not being in love doesn’t mean you won’t and never will find your prince charming. Good luck next for next time, ladies!
