Dear Dames,
This one for you…
We always tend to just go for short-term flings and casual hook-ups. That the deal, we guess. We would always get caught up in the thrill and exhilaration goes up right at the moment we get to know someone new. No doubt, it is always fun to jump from one person to the next (most of us feel this way, we are not talking about the rest). Loving that new person is always refreshing and invigorating.
But after we get to know that person the thrill and exhilaration mitigate and we find something or the other wrong with our chemistry as a couple. What we all should keep in mind that some relationship isn’t meant to last and there’s nothing to be ashamed of about that. We can assure you that there are some people (you know them maybe) who are just so deathly afraid of getting close and intimate to another person. Well, that is why, at the start of getting to know someone, it’s very important to figure out whether you both are on the same page or not. If you’re genuinely interested in saving yourself a lot of time then we suggest you share your thought with someone who went through the same experience.
If you know that the person whom you love isn’t really going to take you seriously, then at least do some favor to yourself, tell him “NO”. You should know that investing so much hour, minute, second towards that individual so that you won’t end up getting unmet expectations. Try not to make a fool of yourself. Self-guard yourself from making yourself a love-failed fool. Communication is always key in any relationship no matter how far away you both stay. However, these communications and discussions won’t be easy. Only the bravest and the most mature of us will go through them. If you find that a person is incapable of having a discussion with you then it’s the best time to walk away from it. Here are a few signs that he is not the one:
# He will avoid talking to you about the future.
# He won’t consult you whenever he makes any decisions. He simply finalizes it and you have to endure it even if you don’t want to.
# He won’t open up to you about a private matter.
Aren’t these signs enough to let you know that- your heart needs to move on!!!! Know the drill and be smart.
