This might sound selfish or cranky but it is good to be a tad bit selfish in a relationship. Yes, you’re reading it, right ladies! Let’s be honest here being in a relationship is tough, you have to juggle with a lot of unexpected situation. It has always been quite demanding and hard working too. And on top of that, it seems being generous and caring towards your partner/ boyfriend/ special person is the right kind of molecule that every woman carries in their DNA. Woman most of the time forget that they have their own needs and desires that should be taken care of too.
Hence, we came up with the need to be tad bit “selfish” in your relationship. It is definitely not about everything has to circulate around your boyfriend; it is about realizing your desires, wants and needs and placing them before everything else.
1. Just get it straight... if you’re not happy you can’t make anyone happy. Just smile and take a deep breath and say ‘I LOVE ME’. Love yourself, lady, you need that.
2. Be selfish (or self-centered in this case) and be brave enough to say ‘No’ when you can no longer take anything. What’s wrong is wrong. Be blunt about it, think about yourself for good time's sake.
3. No matter how much your partner earns it doesn’t matter, be selfish enough to realize that being financially stable will give you the feel of being an independent person.
4. Go on a movie date with yourself or go for a long drive. Declutter yourself and release that stress out of your system. We believe you all need ‘Love, life… and me time’!
5. We understand not everyone is a photographer, but it’s something nostalgic to view the world from your own lens., don’t you feel so?
